Menstrual taboos…

“ All of us were born because of menstrual blood, yet it’s considered impure”

I’ve read close to a thousand articles around the very concept of women empowerment. You see women taking giant strides in each and every sphere of life. Be it work, sport or business, women are everywhere. It’s really heartening to see women finally coming out of the clutches of poverty and making their presence felt. But hold on, there’s one thing that keeps bothering me. I really fail to understand why on earth we consider women ‘impure’ during menstrual cycles?

The very biological process of menstruation has been triggering numerous debates centred on issues such as temple entries. While social media campaigns powered by companies manufacturing sanitary napkins are encouraging women to come forward and touch the pickle, there are numerous ‘traditions’ that end up snatching away a girl’s/woman’s freedom.

In some cultures, women aren’t allowed to sleep with their husbands while going through the menstrual cycle. If remember having a leisurely chat with a friend of mine who happens to be a Keralite. He told me his sister wasn’t allowed to share the bed with anyone while she was menstruating. She was made to wash her clothes and utensils separately. He further told me that though she followed this practice quite religiously, it shattered her emotionally as she became extremely reclusive.  Her parents are well educated, but they had to follow the practice because of societal pressure. When confinements are forced upon girls without giving a reasonable explanation, it’s quite possible that they might rebel.

In the state of Chhattisgarh, people still believe that menstrual blood is powerful and can be used by a woman for carrying out ‘Black Magic’. ( that sounds ridiculous).

When parents can’t explain something to their children, they call it a ‘tradition’. Sometimes, I get this feeling that categorising something as a ‘tradition’ is perhaps the only way to draw curtains over a conversation if one doesn’t have a practical reason to substantiate an argument. It’s quite surprising to know that very few women understand their bodies. There is a gap that needs to be addressed. Women should look at menstruation as a biological process. Women further need to understand their bodies in a scientific manner.

In Thiruvananthapuram, women are being introduced to eco-friendly substitutes of regular napkins. Vending machines containing cotton pads have been put in place as a vast majority of women don’t have access to regular pads.

All of us are here because of menstrual blood, and yet it’s considered impure. Many still believe that menstrual blood should not be seen.  The misconception hasn’t changed for ages now. I still remember the powerpoint presentation some of my batchmates from the Indian Institute of Mass Communication (IIMC) had made. There’s a comment made by one of them which still echoes in my ears. “Menstruation doesn’t make you impure, but fickle-mindedness does”. I couldn’t agree more.

I must say that in order to break the silence around the period taboo, breaking the shackles of silence surrounding it should be the first and the foremost step forward. Furthermore, breaking the silence around the safe disposal of sanitary waste is just as important.

A discussion on sanitary pads and menstruation has always brought the radar on the need for an effective and eco-friendly disposal system for sanitary pads.  Open dumping of these pads may lead clogging of drainage systems and sewers. Open dumping of this waste also poses a threat to those handling it. Sanitary workers are vulnerable to diseases such as hepatitis and other bacterial infections while handling pads that are wet and uncovered.

So, to draw the curtains over the argument, we can say menstruation is a natural process. Arguments start intensifying once people begin labelling something as ‘bad’. Menstruation is a biological process, and it’s high time that we understand that.

 

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